In this quick Male Chastity FAQ I want to write about the 7 most critical questions couples who have read my Free guide and blog ask me time and time again.
The lifestyle is more involved than merely answering these seven questions, of course, although these answers will get you moving the right way.
1. My Lover Has Confessed to Me His Need to Be Locked. Has He Lost His Mind?!
No. Well, it’s possible, of course, but very doubtful that this has anything to do with his desires.
Many men fantasise about male chastity and male orgasm denial and if you don’t have the same fantasy, you won’t understand it.
But that’s OK. We don’t have to understand it, because we can simply enjoy the benefits (more on these later in this male chastity FAQ).
For now, suffice it to say it’s a common fantasy and so long as your relationship is essentially OK it will almost certainly bring you a lot of pleasure and may well enhance your whole relationship and other aspects of your life.
2. Is My Husband a Closet Submissive Because He Needs Male Chastity and Orgasm Denial?
Not necessarily. He could be a submissive, of course, although that doesn’t necessarily follow from his desire to hand over to you control of his orgasms.
The majority husbands want to add spice to their relationships and their love lives (we all know it can become a bit stale and unexciting as time goes by, don’t we? it’s not his fault – or yours – it’s just the way we’re made. Male chastity and male orgasm denial is one way among many to make things better since it tends to change the dynamic of the relationship back to how it was when you were first together.
Of all the ideas to take away from this male chastity FAQ, this is probably the second-most crucial .
Besides, even if your husband is submissive, male submissiveness lies on a scale and isn’t a as simple as either/or. Many – the preponderance of them, in fact – men wish to be submissive in the bedroom only, and have no desire for all the severe “female-domination” scenarios you may have come across.
3. Will Male Chastity Repair My Relationship?
It’s very unlikely to do it alone.
If the last myth was the second most important one to dispel in this male chastity FAQ then this is #1!
If your marriage is not essentially solid, if you don’t make love because you are repulsed by each other rather than because you just don’t make the effort any more, then the overwhelming likelihood is male chastity and male orgasm denial are going to crash and burn.
Not what you wanted to hear, I know… however it’s the truth.
4. Should I Get a Belt, Lock Myself Up and Just Give My Girlfriend the Keys?
Well, only you can make that choice, but I think this is a very dumb thing to do.
My guess is you’ve been fantasising about this for a long time.
But it’s going to be something likely very new and surprising to her
if you drop something like this on her without any warning whatsoever, then she really might think you’ve lost the plot.
To her, you’re mooting an idea which from her point of view could mean a major change in your marriage. She’ll need time to think it over and adjust – assuming she’s willing to play at all
Bottom line: you’ve got to talk about it like an adult. Yes, I know you want an easy, simple and comfortable answer, yet this is a male chastity FAQ and is meant to answer your questions and give good advice, not approval for silly ideas.
5. How Can I Force My Girlfriend to Play?
You can’t. And you shouldn’t even try.
The way to lead your partner into it – and this is true for both men and women – is to SHOW them not just TELL them about the benefits THEY will enjoy.
It’s beyond the remit of this male chastity FAQ to go into detail here, however if you make it all about YOU – “I want… I want… I want…”, then you probably won’t get. Male chastity and male orgasm denial require hard work from.
It’s not just about either one of you – it’s two-way street.
6. Do We Need a Device to Play at Male Chastity and Male Orgasm Denial?
If you imagine you do… then you likely do; but, if you imagine you don’t… then you don’t.
Many men and women very successfully use the “Honour” system (including John and me very often).
If it works for you both, or it doesn’t… then you know the answer.
There is no right and wrong way to do this – male chastity is a consensual lifestyle choice and there is no book of scripture telling you what is and isn’t “allowed”.
And the final question in this male chastity FAQ…
7. What Male Chastity Belt Should I/My Husband Buy?
The brief answer is I don’t know.
You may as well ask whether a Land Rover is a better car than a Rolls Royce
Thus a long answer is… it depends.
If you intend to drive off-road and ford deep rivers, then a Land Rover would be a better choice than a Rolls; although if you want something to impress a VIP, then a Rolls might be better.
Not only that, but not all men react the same way to the same devices.
Every different device has its own advantages and disadvantages which I won’t go into in this male chastity FAQ.
In the main, I think it’s safe to say a full belt tends to be more secure than a simple device, yet then belts are also more expensive.
Ultimately, though, you won’t know what suits you unless you give something a try.
It likely makes sense to begin (relatively) cheap and simple, say with a device like a CB3000 and then see how that works.
If it does what you want it to do, then fine; if not, you may have to think again.
Bottom line: trial and error. There is no other answer.
Sarah Jameson, author and host of the widely renowned and highly lauded Male Chastity FAQ is ‘enforcing’ a full year of merciless orgasm denial on her husband in a steel chastity belt. Sarah discovered the male chastity lifestyle some 2 3/4 years ago, and now lives it to the full with her willing, delighted and cruelly orgasm-denied husband, John who finds his confinement in a male chastity belt tough, torturous but ultimately rewarding. She writes extensively on all aspects of male chastity to help other couples embrace and incorporate this delicious way of living into their relationships.
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